23 KEYS: Relating-101 [S01:M03:T01]

Welcome to Module Three whose purpose is to provide the means to significantly WayBetter #Relationships both with self and others. Module three’s first WayBetternar, titled ‘23 KEYS: Relating-101’ delivers fresh revelations that are focused on soaring one’s individual and interpersonal living-conditions to awesome by delivering unique and immediately useable #Relationship Keys.

I’m, Doctor David J. Hastings PhD, Dean of #Habitology University and the host for this eighth 23 Secret Keys to WayBetter Your L.I.F.E. Doctor David TALK’s WayBetternar.

So, as some groundwork has now been laid regarding How-One-Truly-Works, time to get on with specifying necessities that WayBetter Your #Relationship L.I.F.E. with yourself, with your romantic Partner(s) and with significant others.

Note that #Health (both Mental and Physical) and #Wealth (both #Joyfulness and Material) will be covered in following Modules.

Hopefully you are starting to get familiar with #Habisitology lingo. In other words, hopefully #Habisitology coined terms are now more Recognized than UN-Recognized. Recognized means Habisitology’s unique terminology is not only successfully data-archived as archived-old but also now is rapidly and fully retrievable.

As eight #Keys are pertinent for understanding how-to WayBetter Your #Relationship L.I.F.E., a concise summary to-date follows.

Key number One: Mechanical-energy’s frequencies are Universe-H’s immutable baseplate: i.e., they don’t mush together and form a generic broth. Such #frequency persistence thus not only ensures Gold stays Gold and rainbow colors remain in the same order, etc. but also that each of the many types of mechanical-#energy being delivered to or Bombarding one’s sensory-arrays is consistent. In other words, a sound the first time is not touch the next time.

Key number Two: Sensory-acceptance, which converts mechanical-#energy from Out-There to electrical-#energy In-Here initializes the tailoring of the #frequency consistent neurological-currency called current-new.

The steadfastness of current-new (#CurrentNew) is critical because it not only is utilized by all follow-on brain-mass processors to both drive Figuring-Out What-Is-Going-On Out-There and deploying applicable current equalizing actions but also is the precursor to archived-old that when retrieved and reconstituted yields one’s experiences or memories.

Key number Three: One’s Bombardment-Sphere (i.e., one’s ‘physical’ surroundings that have the potential to provide mechanical-energy to sensory-arrays) is pivotal in shaping what one considers normal and acceptable: i.e., ones #personality, #perspectives, #beliefs, #biases, #addictions, etc.

Key number Four: Sensory-acceptance, which, as it is the only way to gather #experiences or archived-old, is thus the gateway for getting What-You-Truly-Want.

Key number Five: Humanity has two quite differently configured brains, which #Habisitology coins the Self-Duo (#SelfDuo). The Body-Self brain, which also includes all the neurological tissues in the physical-self, is built for millisecond-by-millisecond speed and is thus purposed for rapid responses that maximize survival-potential.

Its partner, the Mind-Self brain on the other hand is not only enabled to independently ponder, mull and initiate sensory feedback-loops but also designed to assist Body-Self with #Problematic (or UN-recognized and/or Higher-intensity) current-new.

Mind-Self assistance is accomplished through not only engagement of its proprietary Visual-Sensors but also by both deploying its powerful Cognitive-Pathway Figure-It-Out #Solutioning arsenal and sending #resolution Test-It suggestions back to Body-Self’s Actioning-Trio to improve Body-Self positioning changes.

Key number Six: #Habit Power, formed from the archived-old action-potentials of current-new, which drive more than 95% of one’s ‘normal’ day-to-day actions, is the automated steadfast tactic that ensures one’s safety and survival.

Three #Habit Power types are actioned by the #Habit Trio: Reflexive safety and survival rapid response #Habits from Body-Self neural brain-mass; plus two living-conditions significant #habit types deployed by Mind-Self. Specifically, beneficial Pro-#Habits, which drive getting you What-You-Truly-Want, and destructive chaos-#habits that limit your possibilities: In other words, are detrimental to your getting What-You-Truly-Want and becoming all you can be.

Key number Seven: two Pro-#Habits are foundational to your getting What-You-Truly-Want: unwavering #Passion-To-DO and unbreakable #Belief-You-Can.

Key number Eight: One’s second-by-second interactive #DOing with the vast Out-There literally differentiates both what we #DO and how we #DO it. Thus, the great news is that DOing not only creates one’s current living-conditions, but also manifests the behavioral expressions that distinguish each person’s unique personality.

Worth repeating is that one of the greatest gifts bestowed to everyone

is the potential to proactively choose what to #DO!

Evident is that inaction will certainly result in nothing.

DOing something - although it may result in nothing

has the potential to create something.

DOing extreme however, the Passion-To-DO, not just guarantees

creation of something but will most likely spawn incredible!

Conclusively, it’s not the creation of acceptable from plenty

that lights-one-up, but Pro-Habit striving to create

exceptional from scarcity!

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Now these eight pivotal Keys are underscored, let’s continue.

Personal Adage One: I believe #pleasures from slight to substantial form the wondrously variant tiles that accumulate to tailor one’s unique #Happiness Mosaic: Thus, eagerly collect as many #pleasures as you can.

To enhance both individual and couple #relationships (and thus individual and mutual living-conditions), the following #Relationship #Desiderata is proffered. Note ‘#Couple’ is not used restrictively but is meant to encompass all loving #relationships. Its propositions or value statements have enabled many #couples to joyfully select, define and refine #relationship targets.

The Relationship Desiderata’s value-points are not proposed as must DO’s but instead as discussion-points, objectives or targets to be mutually evaluated regarding their applicability to your current partnership situation.

The word ‘#targets’ is used because the idea is to inspire enjoyable collaboration by getting one’s figurative ‘arrows’ into the ‘air’ moving toward (#direction) mutually chosen targets (#destination). The #Relationship Desiderata is not meant to initiate a competition to see who can first hit a bull’s-eye.

Personal Adage Two: Avoidance of #unhappiness is not the same as a quest for #Happiness.

Relationship Desiderata

Create a reciprocally inclusive Pro-Habit driven relationship:

Where interaction is involved, considerate, kind, compassionate and caring

Where the needs and feelings of the other are as significant as your own

Where agreements, not decrees are the foundation for interaction

Where there is full disclosure without secrets

Where there are no hidden agendas

Where compliments flow freely

Where trust is unbreakable

Where decisions are made together, over whatever time is necessary to ensure inclusion

Where there is an overwhelming desire to give and receive Love and Belonging

Where commitment to the other is unshakable

Where nurturing, not sabotage is the rule

Where sensitivity, not neglect pervades

Where partners can show mutual appreciation of the gifts each is bestowing upon the other.

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In the next several WayBetternars: Conversation mode vs. Communication mode; What is Attraction; How does one ‘choose’ their partner; Lobster Fork Relationship Model; Couples Relationship Decagon; Private-Self and Public-Self and much more!

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Until the next WayBetternar, stay safe! Thank You for your time: much appreciated!

[The above a tailored transcript of ‘23 KEYS: Relating-101’ (#23KeysRelating101): reference-ID ‘S01:M03:T01’. Hosted by Doctor David J. Hastings PhD (#DavidJHastings #DoctorDavid), it is the eighth Doctor David TALK’s (#DoctorDavidTALKs) #WayBetternar in a video seminar series available free on the YouTube channel called ‘23 Keys to WayBetter Your L.I.F.E.’ (#23KeysToWayBetterYourLIFE).]